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Don't randomly patch relationship with your former of boyfriend or girlfriend

    Whether back patch relationship with the former,  On former, Although break up yet, Many folks are still reserved and recap the past, either.    Still ever will remember in the past particular, previously particular, ever sense a few confession    Especially as when haven't met like more than the former later, haven't better to choose, More easy recap previous life its either particular, Start miss the former, too.  Sense the former is still excellent and fill potential, Actually don't too horrible.    At this time, Once the former back and requests patch relation, More easily starts oscillation, Caused want for him the chance again.    When break up later, always has fantasy in the heart because her former, This common.    Although it as this, actually don't advice a randomly path relationship either, Randomly with former back relationship again.     Break-up relationships, on behalf, don't fit each other.    One man and one woman couple, They to be lover, Late

過往舊事

 小時候我家住在半山腰上,母親一想到這事就來氣,村子裡面不給劃地,讓她家孤零零的一家在山腰上,去村子一趟多麻煩啊。我和姐姐都還沒上學,整天也沒個伴。


春天的時候山上野桃花從遠處看一片粉一片白,夾雜著金黃嬌嫩的連翹花,雖然還是冷得要穿著襖,倒也美得很。


母親餵了豬,一家人吃了紅薯湖湯,我和姐姐就在院子旁吸著鼻涕摘花玩過家家。父親在院子裡擺弄他的喇叭,過幾天有戶人家結婚早就請他到時去吹了。


喜事的時候喇叭上要綁紅布,喪事的時候喇叭上綁白布。大部分都是不寬裕的人家,收錢的時候總會推讓著少收些。


父親母親翻過山,去溝溝地里幹活。父親愛唱民歌,母親只管幹活。何老頭子在山上放牛,山太深了,有時候沒遇到別的放牛的一個人心裡慌,就一天天唱山歌,總是那幾句歌詞,扯著個長長的調調。


這個季節最好捉野兔子了,父親在集市上買了幾個鐵夾子,在莊稼地邊通口出放著,第二天早上遠遠的就看到掙扎的野兔子。我們最喜歡吃了。平時也沒有肉吃,好容易餵頭肥豬大部分都是賣了過年。


晚上炒兔肉的時候母親吩咐我們去房子後頭的山腳尋些香菜,我們蹦跳著歡喜著去了。結果母親倒酒的時候不小心倒了煤油,鍋都著火了,我們回來一看吃不上肉了,委屈的哭開了。


父母去地里幹活,姐姐就牽著搖搖晃晃的我去山窪裡找村里的孩子玩,路過財伯家,那老頭子就笑嘻嘻的問:你倆以後誰留在家裡呀?


山里是要留一個女孩入贅的。



倆小姑娘聽不懂大人在說什麼,就大聲又清脆的說:我們倆都留家裡!


春天剛忙完,父親就和一群漢子進城攬活兒了。


夏天實在是太熱,可是乾活的人們早早就起來上地。不敢偷懶呀。


好多時候都能看到蛇熱的鑽出洞來,在路邊躺著乘涼。這個時候漢子就悄悄的拿著扁擔撐子叉過去,抓住七寸抖一抖裝到蛇皮袋裡,拿去集市上換錢。


秋收的時候父親回來了,興高采烈的向母親討好著展示他的勞動成果,晚上閒著沒事就在院子邊數著那皺皺巴巴的錢。


我早晚要蓋個像城裡那樣的好房子,明亮亮的,氣派得很!父親總是這樣說。


母親就吵吵,一天天往外跑掙了幾個錢?我跟著你淨受罪了。她望瞭望廚房案板上那一碗豬油,父親走的時候是滿的,回來這還是滿的。


父親心裡憋屈的時候就蹲在院子邊捲菸葉大口大口的抽。


早上起來母親就找不到父親了,去地里幹活的時候卻發現麥子收了大半了,整整齊齊的擺在那兒,父親低著頭一聲不響的呼呼的割麥子


母親忍不住笑開了,死小心眼兒的,快回去吃飯呀。


院子後面的槐樹林金黃金黃的一片,風一吹都簌簌的往下落,我和姐姐蹬著樹興奮的跟著葉子手舞足蹈,天天在山里尋野棗子野櫻桃往肚子裡塞。


父親砍柴,母親在山上戴著粗布手套拉連翹,有時候看到柴胡或者是錢胡之類的藥材也挖出來背上拿出去賣。


忙著忙著就過年了,深山里的雪格外的厚重安靜,半天扑棱棱的飛過一隻鳥兒。


掙扎的人兒們辛苦了一年了,可是過年一定要過好。村子裡的人去集市買東西,互相打聽著哪家的東西又便宜又好,回來的時候給孩子帶些城裡孩子玩的塑料青蛙、蝴蝶,還有一些一按會發光的小玩意兒。


誠心誠意的接送財神爺,希望來年的光景能比今年好些。給列祖列宗端些饅頭擺些肉,一定要保佑來年好運氣吧。

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