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    Whether back patch relationship with the former,  On former, Although break up yet, Many folks are still reserved and recap the past, either.    Still ever will remember in the past particular, previously particular, ever sense a few confession    Especially as when haven't met like more than the former later, haven't better to choose, More easy recap previous life its either particular, Start miss the former, too.  Sense the former is still excellent and fill potential, Actually don't too horrible.    At this time, Once the former back and requests patch relation, More easily starts oscillation, Caused want for him the chance again.    When break up later, always has fantasy in the heart because her former, This common.    Although it as this, actually don't advice a randomly path relationship either, Randomly with former back relationship again.     Break-up relationships, on behalf, don't fit each other.    One man and one woman couple, They to be lover, Late

中醫女人

再次回到這個縣城已經是時隔三年了,夏天的縣城也還算熱鬧,我約了朋友在郊區旅遊景點旁吃飯。剛子和小藝也是昨天才到,大家能遇到也真是湊巧。


吃飯的地方是當地有名的飯館,菜也有特色,我們在頂樓坐著,找尋著當年的回憶,互相感慨唏噓、推杯換盞,無非是感嘆歲月太快......


小藝對著樓下出神了。 “幹嘛呢”,剛子叫她。


“你們看!”,她壓低聲音,示意我們看樓下。


大概是一個六十來歲模樣拄著拐杖的男人,衣著整齊。旁邊跟著一位身姿曼妙的女人,化著好看的妝容。約摸著剛有三十歲。


“嗨,現在的社會啊,都成啥樣了,連我們這個縣城也這樣,這麼漂亮的女人遇到有錢的老頭子也禁不住誘惑吧!”剛子開始逼叨叨。


小藝喝了口水,用眼神埋汰了一下剛子。


“你們想听故事不?“ 我問。


“有屁快放!”剛子說。


“今兒酒好呀。”小藝望了我一眼,點頭示意。


我滿飲一杯,看了看那兩人,彷彿陷入了一段回憶。


在一個規模不大,卻也熙熙攘攘的縣城南部,有一個中醫鋪子。一般這個藥舖子門是關著的,你有什麼急事肯定是找不到他,門上寫著電話,得約個時間才行。鋪子的主人大概有六十來歲了吧。這個鋪子 ,恐怕也要四十多年啦。老醫生一生跟中藥打交道,質樸、簡單,但看病說話的時候聲音會比平常高好幾倍。


“你這個喉嚨啊!已經腫啦你知道嗎?你吃那些藥只管當時是不作數的,我給你開這藥你就好好吃!兩個月後保管你身體調理過來,臉上也會有氣色,知道吧?........”


“你這是受了寒啦,血液流通不暢啊,要喝些暖宮的藥啊....."


.....


鋪子里傳出來的聲音很響亮,假如你不小心路過,大概會以為裡面有什麼爭執。


每每開完藥方,簾子裡會出來一個女人,細細的抓藥。女人頭髮是燙過的、到耳後挽起來, 膚白貌美,優雅安靜,總是塗著顯氣色的口紅。這個貧瘠的地方大都活躍著身材走形的婆娘,這個女人顯得格外的迷人漂亮。


中醫醫術是出名的好。當地有傳言說,中醫從小就愛研究藥材,天生對藝術有靈性,完成學業後跟著老醫生乾了幾年就自己開藥舖了。可是性格古怪啊,很沉默,一般不說話,一開口談起藥材確實口若懸河,聲音洪亮。找媳婦自然是困難了,不過他也不著急,就這樣毫無波瀾的到了四十多歲。


女人,女人



四十五歲那年,一天有個年輕的男人到了他家裡,據說是喜歡的姑娘得了病,姑娘從小無父無母,住在叔叔家裡,看過的醫生幾乎都放棄了。男人幾乎要跪下來求他,無論如何也要醫她。中醫終究是心善,讓男人帶過來了那個姑娘。


中醫看到那個姑娘的時候愣了許久,他把男人叫出去說了什麼,後來男人進屋看看姑娘,就走了。


姑娘是內斂的,她按照男人的囑咐開始配合中醫治病。中醫把簾子後面的床換上了乾淨的被褥,姑娘就住下了。


中醫果然有能耐,一晃兩個月過去了,姑娘可以下床走路了,漂亮的臉蛋上有了血色,漸漸紅潤了起來。


當她問中醫什麼時候男人來接他的時候,中醫沉默了。只說了一句話:以後就住這裡吧。


姑娘幾乎是瘋了呀,不到二十歲的年紀,眼神竟然有說不出的恨意。後來聽說姑娘經常鬧,一個人甚麼也不帶就悄悄往外跑,常常是中醫緊張的四處尋找。中醫總是做好飯菜,備著姑娘喜歡看的書,養著姑娘喜歡養的花。


鄰居們都說中醫脾氣好,無論姑娘怎麼使性子,中醫從來沒發過脾氣。漸漸的藥舖子裡時不時的傳來笑聲,還有姑娘和中醫研究樂器的聲音。


後來姑娘有了孩子,性子漸漸溫柔了起來。中醫喜不自勝,照顧的更加仔細了。常常是即便有人預約也約不上好的時間看病抓藥了。


姑娘長大了,身材更豐滿了,脾氣更不似原先那般剛烈。中醫得了個男孩,簡直不知道怎麼疼才好。


有次中醫幫病人開完藥方,姑娘從簾子裡面走出來,認真的開始抓藥,包藥。大概也就是這個時候,中醫的心裡泛起一股酸楚和感動。也大概是這一刻,所有的情緒都隨著時間和解了吧。



歲月沒有停止它的腳步,而藥舖子,依然還是原先那個地方。


夜色漸漸降臨,縣城還是那麼熱鬧。


那對夫妻在樓下吃著燒烤,時而發笑時而沉默​​。


來,再喝一杯,剛子說。

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