Thing about affirmations is you have to believe them… They won’t help, and may even backfire, if you don’t truly believe the words you are saying to be absolutely true. Why is that? Because the Law of Attraction doesn’t respond to your words. It responds to your vibration. If you speak words while vibrating in fear, or doubt, or hopelessness, chances are you will attract unwanted manifestations without realizing it. On the other hand, if you know with the very fabric of your soul that your affirmations are the truth of the Universe, then you will call them towards you with inevitability. Many humans pray, meditate, or dream from their hopes, wishes and fantasies rather than their beliefs. For example, they may say to themselves, “I hope I find someone to make me happy,” while they doubt their own ability to ever be happy. That vibration of skepticism serves to work against the very happiness being hoped for. Instead, by starting from a place of knowing and building upon it with steadfa
聽到這樣一個故事,一對戀人在民政局剛剛辦好結婚手續,就在要離開的時候,新娘突然在新郎面前跌倒在地上,這個時候,新郎不是馬上去扶起新娘,而是哈哈大笑,然後又補上一句:真是個蠢豬!
新娘聽到這句話後,沒有馬上發火,她說出了讓所有人都感到意外的一句話:咱們離婚吧!在新娘的堅持下,在辦完結婚手續三分鐘後,就匆匆地離了婚。
這件事,很多人認為只是一件小事,怎麼能和離婚扯到一起?
在我看來,這不僅僅是一件小事,婚姻中,往往都細節貫穿生活的全部。而女人最在乎的就是生活中的點點滴滴和細微的小事。
一生很長,在婚姻剛剛開始時,這個男人就表現出自己的冷漠和漠視對方,有這樣一個不確定的前提,必然有一個不確定的結果。這是這個女人當時的想法,而且又乾脆果斷做出這樣的決斷,無疑是對的。
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