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Don't randomly patch relationship with your former of boyfriend or girlfriend

    Whether back patch relationship with the former,  On former, Although break up yet, Many folks are still reserved and recap the past, either.    Still ever will remember in the past particular, previously particular, ever sense a few confession    Especially as when haven't met like more than the former later, haven't better to choose, More easy recap previous life its either particular, Start miss the former, too.  Sense the former is still excellent and fill potential, Actually don't too horrible.    At this time, Once the former back and requests patch relation, More easily starts oscillation, Caused want for him the chance again.    When break up later, always has fantasy in the heart because her former, This common.    Although it as this, actually don't advice a randomly path relationship either, Randomly with former back relationship again.     Break-up relationships, on behalf, don't fit each other.    One man and one woman couple, They to be lover, Late

為什麼富人越來越富,窮人越來越窮?一個故事告訴你真相


我們有沒有發現一個問題,就是窮人不管多麼努力,卻總是覺得自己在困境之中,辛苦了幾年,最後還是一無所有,喜歡的東西還是捨不得買。而富人不需要付出多大的勞動,甚至只要稍微辛苦一下,就能獲得窮人辛苦一輩子的財富。



現代人都說自己生活很苦,很忙碌,但是忙碌所帶來的價值,每個人都不一樣。比如有的設計師加班到凌晨三點,卻連一分錢加班費都沒有,而隨便一個明星工作到半夜12點就在網上叫苦連天,所收到的利益卻數以萬計。


於是就出現了一個大家都見怪不怪的現象,就是富人越來越富,時間越來越多,窮人越來越窮,時間越來越少。那麼出現貧富差距的原因到底是什麼?雖然我們沒有一個好的家庭背景,也絕非“憑藉自己努力最後終於繼承了家產”的秀兒,也沒有貴人的扶持和幫助,但是卻能依靠智慧和思維白手起家。


事實上,財富並非是最貴的東西,最貴的是你擁有的智慧和思維方式。比如下面這個故事,就充分反映了一個人思維方式的轉變,可以為自己創造多大的財富價值。


19世紀的美國加州,人們在當地發現了大型的金礦,這一消息迅速傳遍了整個城市,人們紛紛意識到這是一個發家致富的好時機,於是開始成群結隊的向金礦金發,這支隊伍被稱為“淘金隊”,而17歲的猶太人亞默爾,也是淘金隊中的一名成員。


當時的淘金隊人數可謂是人滿為患,人們越聚​​越多,有的人為了爭奪寶的甚至還大打出手,再加上當地氣候炎熱,人們更是苦不堪言。隨著時間的推移,金子是越來越少,但是人卻一天比一天多,很多人沒有發家致富,還浪費了很多時間。


猶太人亞默爾也沒有挖到金子,自己還累得上氣不接下氣,好幾次在這炎熱的天氣中幾乎暈厥。有一天亞默爾突發奇想,既然金子挖不到了,何不去賣水呢?於是他帶著挖金子的工具,尋找水源,並且挖開了一個水渠,再將水過濾之後,裝進了一個大桶裡,然後挑著桶來到挖金者的隊伍當中,以一壺、一袋的方式賣給那些口渴的淘金者。


亞默爾的這種做法被很多人嘲笑,人家都說來挖金子發家致富的,你卻在這裡賣水,這不是瞎胡鬧嗎?亞默爾聽到這些嘲諷,不為所動,在他看來,水是一個免費的資源,可以說是不需要任何投入,用免費的水去賣給大家,而且還沒有競爭者,這樣的好事從哪裡找尋呢?


就這樣,亞默爾依靠賣水在那段時間裡賺了好幾千美元,而那些淘金者卻大多數空手而回。要知道當時的幾千美元可是一筆不小的數目,即便放在今天也足以讓人生活得到極大的改觀。


其實我們回過頭來這個故事,亞默爾的賣水經歷告訴我們這樣一個道理,任何行業開始興起的時候,總會有一大幫人參與其中,這樣競爭力也就變大,實際上能吃到肉的也就那麼幾個人,其他人都是在白忙活。但是從另一個角度來說,一個行業的興起,必然會帶動另一個行業的興旺,只要我們能找到那個隱藏的行業,就能迅速從中獲得可觀的財富。


亞默爾的賣水思維,其實就是一種側面的思考。有的時候此路不通,很多人都會選擇不撞南牆不回頭,也有的人選擇返回原路,而聰明的人善於發現隱蔽的小路,從而獲得新的發展方向。


所以這個世界上真正的財富,並不是金錢貨幣,而是我們靈活多變的思維方式。一個人只要擁有靈活的思維,才能走出貧窮的困境,善於發現和創新,就不會一直貧窮下去!

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