effort go ahead it’s a real truth

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I usually think： although not for what the far ideal，for to good life，you also must effort struggle，don‘t say what romantic life，fuel、rice、oil、salt also make you terrible。 plan my road，step by step to go，not with mouth to say，with the heart to do，in we can master and struggle time，to raise our life quantity，don‘t a road its bend，also don‘t have a kind of effort it’s diserted，beause the life bright isn‘t by an end to talk good and the bad，life’s running，depend on insist，the all of sucessful，depend on effort，although have one hundred reason abandon，you also need to look a reason hardly，don‘t for else，just for in the future that you，wouldn‘t blame ever that you。     whenever life on the road will meeting many obstacles ，all wish we can pay all effort ran this distance，nobody for your failure resposobility，only for your success to congratuation！the effort‘s significance  it’s for to see the bigger the wolrd，it‘s for own freedom  to choose  life chance，it‘s for in future don’t bow the head
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中年人的愛情，婚姻和性

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CICI 已過不惑之年，幾年前離婚獨居，中間也經歷過一些感情，但都無疾而終……


因疫情的關係，想好好利用慢下來的時間尋找那個就等緣分的，可她卻找了一堆煩惱


突然今天CiCi問了一個讓我懵圈的問題


現在的電視劇，抖音或其他的小視頻為什麼都是離婚，小三，背叛，欺騙？ ？ ？ ？


小朋友，你有很多問號，我也是同樣暈暈的


什麼時候開始綠茶婊，黑茶系列進入主流媒體？


什麼時候男人開始嫌棄女人沒文化，但又可以娶回家的？


到了中年就開始，包養小三的，包養小白臉的，都出來了……


CICI說在線上遇到的人，不是奔著一夜情，就是奔著生孩子的。


談戀愛談戀愛，什麼時候談變成了做……她不排斥也不反對，畢竟成年人，大家都有生理需要，可能是她自己的問題，太過保守，覺得要是那個對的人才可以


我不知道如何安慰她，想想一個在異鄉工作生活本就不易，想找的也不過是一份心靈寄託，在累的時候有人安慰一句，在哭的時候有人遞張紙巾，可她只能一個人在深夜痛哭流涕，把自己一片一片找回來


婚姻是愛情的墳墓，性是愛情的指標或唯一嗎？


願CICI還能保持那份純真，遇上她的Mr. Right


八月再見，期待九月的美好

Location: 美国

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