中年人的愛情，婚姻和性

CICI 已過不惑之年，幾年前離婚獨居，中間也經歷過一些感情，但都無疾而終……

因疫情的關係，想好好利用慢下來的時間尋找那個就等緣分的，可她卻找了一堆煩惱

突然今天CiCi問了一個讓我懵圈的問題

現在的電視劇，抖音或其他的小視頻為什麼都是離婚，小三，背叛，欺騙？？？？

小朋友，你有很多問號，我也是同樣暈暈的

什麼時候開始綠茶婊，黑茶系列進入主流媒體？

什麼時候男人開始嫌棄女人沒文化，但又可以娶回家的？

到了中年就開始，包養小三的，包養小白臉的，都出來了……

CICI說在線上遇到的人，不是奔著一夜情，就是奔著生孩子的。

談戀愛談戀愛，什麼時候談變成了做……她不排斥也不反對，畢竟成年人，大家都有生理需要，可能是她自己的問題，太過保守，覺得要是那個對的人才可以

我不知道如何安慰她，想想一個在異鄉工作生活本就不易，想找的也不過是一份心靈寄託，在累的時候有人安慰一句，在哭的時候有人遞張紙巾，可她只能一個人在深夜痛哭流涕，把自己一片一片找回來

婚姻是愛情的墳墓，性是愛情的指標或唯一嗎？

願CICI還能保持那份純真，遇上她的Mr. Right

八月再見，期待九月的美好

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