first， soon before age 30 years old married make self， isn‘t say 30 years age after without men marry you， it‘s optional less than past。 If you haven’t reached age 30 years old， you doubt boyfriend family poverty， can gradual carefully observe him whether with potential， whether marriage after brings very safe for you， If you over 30 years old， don‘t be considered too much so， you boyfriend poverty who wait for you reach 30 years old， so why not hunt a young and beautiful girlfriend？ second， don‘t be down marry， just down marry the girl basic sorrow in end， here I say “down marry” are wish you can objectively comment yourself， for self have a clear location If salary per month 3000 dollars， age over forty years old still feel self are eighteen years old little fairy， down marry isn’t say boyfriend earn money less with you compare， yours growth environment and living environment can‘t differ too much， special is money value viewpoint need close。 third， hunt education close with y