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The new year When was coming which boyfriends haven't wrapped red enveloped for you, How did you think?

    Why does he don't have wrapped red enveloped me?    A girl, Right now is celebrating the new year the period, She intimate has told her said, he boyfriend how red envelop wrapped for her After the intimate asked her how many of red envelope do you received? She answered Haven't received any of the new year's gifts, Merely has received a words of happy new year.   Originally unhappy a little, like this under to compare, She unhappy for more, Even starting has doubted this passage of intercourse.    Guess and sense the boyfriend doesn't love self, Plan and intend to break up this passage of love.    That wrapped red envelopes celebrating the new year, Between the lovers, wrapped red envelopes, It was normal.    Yet, It always has a certain time, It doesn't obtain the all-girls, Properly could receive the red envelops from her boyfriend there, When celebrating new years, Your boyfriend hasn't wrapped red envelops for you in ever, Actually, You don't necessa

The couple of located different place to which side celebrate the new year ,Does why them frequently been a talking?


     



     Amid impression, Every year celebrate new years when young, All in my daddy this side.
   Then that day the first of the new year Would go out to play, When the second that day of the new year, The one family people go to grandmother's family together.
   Basically every year it was done, Don't exist what case.
   The custom was this form, also was two families the distance wasn't too far.
    At that time, For fathers and mothers that generous to talk, almost many were near Not far get married.
   In where celebrate new year didn't have an opinion, So between of the couple, Basically won't for this had caused contradiction.
   Nowadays, With the era fast development, The traffic was rather convenient, Lots of young people crowding other cities, Recognized many interesting matched teenagers, This caused much of long-distance relationships between couples.
   Two families exist long distances.
   Long distance relationship of the couple, Ordinary touch yet good, But when once to the new year, This it ever has forks for this caused opinion.
   The ideas concept has changed, No longer only stay in man family celebrate new years.
    When a couple them people have located a long distance, Many women stay in the man's life in the city. Each other in a block of the new city set a home.
   When a woman has chosen a long-distance relationship with a man, Becomes self's husband, Always lives at a long distance far away from her home, Far away from friends and parents, and Gradually, experiences too much sour sweet bitter, and spicy, She natural beginning will miss her hometown and relative or friends.
   During the ordinary, the miss belongs miss, Self yet must make money, and yet take care of family, Cannot go away, However when came new year, 
    That was united timing, One family people start relaxing, She would miss, consider, It was time to home and take a look.
    
   Numerous women, Every meeting the new year, Usually all have like these ideas.
    Additionally, the marriage of this era didn't alike compare to the past, It wasn't married to the man in the home, It was more of two young people  
   getting along, and common build a small family.
    For young people to taking, The parents that generation person, original was don't have how person, Much of family, Exclusion self possible yet have a child, A few families even only has a daughter, For the parents, The women certainly has a responsibility.
   Additionally, in this era of women, no longer like in the past who rely on men to live, Opposite became very independent, More independent was on economic, On the mental aspect, too.
    This also caused, Folk's mental become more plural, The women own more rights, which Wouldn't sense, and Must stay in the man's family, Opposite also could back self's home, So who will mention that talking.
   Didn't for others, Just think to follow self's ideas willing, Right now properly this time,  back to home take a look.
   Consult approaches haven't been reached, and each hasn't agreement both exchange
   Speaking up, Whatever the case, If could mutual has forgiven, approached for a balance point, That wouldn't have what matter, Just around go to whom family celebrates new year this thing, Much the time, Whoever wouldn't make a setback.
   The women claim up back home to celebrate the new year, In her eyes, This was rather normal, Should respect her, after all, she parents has nourish her for many years, They age also older, Just upset, so many of men, and his family people, They won't think this.
    Though Now celebrate the new year, It lost certain taste compared to previously, in many, the man's heart Still will perceive since the woman has married with self, So she has already been a member of this family, Should stay the man's family to celebrate the new year.
    If go to a women's parents' family to celebrate new years, Might it meaning the man has low value identify, Of course, his parents might link effect, So he not only won't agree to women's family to celebrate new years, Even yet he doesn't promise the women back to her parents family to celebrate new years?
    The man's attitude sure, Still will sense the women don't understand to stand his angle, Also at all won't give a good of instead strategy, Suppose life. has given out, the girls also still insist, Don't definitely accept.
   
    Consequently, Two people the opinion against a branch, Naturally caused them to separate, Whoever don't follow which side.
   Eventually, That would so affect of each the emotions, Even possibly would prompt this passage marriage crack.
   Looks up, Seems this issue too hardly, Each who don't have method to advice correct, Actually still the ideas different, Each don't understand how to manage, Go to manage of them this passage relationship.
    Ever back to whom family to celebrate the new year, This was a dispute, This actually shouldn't become a problem.
   If each on this issue, Whoever doesn't opinion, so good, If do, So ever various to keep on, Maybe listened to the object proposal, Kindly talking with the object.
    If has an incident situation, Who family has so in who family, If not, so according to each fact situation to do.
    Too much time, Could in man's family to celebrate the new year, When the economic wide, Occasional, Also still back to women family to celebrate new year one time. If each economic enough support, One time in a man's family, One time in a woman's family, This was good and it hasn't what can't.
    and might say, If original ordinary life was in man's family, So when celebrating the new year goes to women family, This was great.
   Don't care about the face else, the key was based on each other, Between mutual must humorous, Between a couple of emotions even, That important it whatever to compare anything.


   

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