Below these three kinds of your behavior ,Might is represent you genuine has failure yet

 Faild is not terrible, after all, on the way of life up and down are very normal, Truely terrible is why you have into failure abyss?

A few people, perhaps them met failure before, but one's can keep a steady heart,one times by one times stands up from failure, and a few people else, They met failed, but they never have to stand up, never ability stand up from encounter failure again

anyone more or less will experience failure,just have some people failure can depend on a powerful heart to change, but one person just into fall failure because of their heart, maybe the problem has tricky, even will therefore at failure encounter an endless abyss

If you fall into a momentary failure and fall into short momentary downfalls, No matter, a heart appears the problem is really the biggest fatal. If you have these three kinds of behavior above, It means really failed

Jealous hearts, always don't want them better than myself.

A clever person, like to find other people's advantages, suck them the advantage to oneself, and make myself can progress to every day.

However, as a failure people, always can't get rid of a jealous heart, and often don't like other people who are better than me, Once meet  very excellent people more than myself, Their hearts is very uncomfortable, either at back talk about them or quite hate them, look forward to them fall

 I have a colleague:XIAO ZHANG", always a set doesn't like very better than oneself, and always discusses with some very effort people, one day he told me; "look at zhangming, he very hards work in front of showing to his boss, then it really promoted by the leader, It's really let everyone jealous!

  In fact,zhangming always is very honest person, whenever the leader is in or out, he very hard worked attitude,look xiaozhang another facet besides absolutely belonging to jealous, doesn't want zhangming work position has promoted

  xiaozhang belong to zhangming predecessor before he leads to zhangming, Mybe It comes later than me to company young people, It stands taller than oneself. the hearts inevitably uncomfortable but at back talk about other one him effort, Very too much!

 don't like to see others live better than oneself, exactly to say it's not enough effort for me. if xiaozhang and zhangming have the same efforts, perhaps it's will success earlier, Now he resigned from the company, and he lifetime into a fall encountered, on the other facet see zhangming has passed an effort,get his boss promoted.

While one person has a jealous heart, inevitably will into the failure abyss, Not only cannot though other  to promotion myself, even  will offend others, into fall desperate encountered, such a person cannot get rid of the failure end

Vanity heart, It's often hitting deliberately makes his face lump to exhibit his identity status

always has some people, for self the face, overdraw in the future money to life, go to buy some luxury stuff like phone, luxury clothes bags and so on, In fact back to look one's even Its the supper was a problem.

 Clever the person, very less have vanity the heart, isn't care about them face, just it's not very important, If have it, It's having, Not will hide it, Nothing is nothing, Don't will for the face lump up to pretend for one fat

Seen those of  failure people, the easiest produce vanity hearts, Such can get other people to respect, In fact, there is one kind of courtesy words.no one know what's things behind, however reality life who get offended, only oneself most clarity

When you if cannot get rid of vanity, your life will also inevitably pay any more, Your life eventually will  destroy you, also will let your life into desperate, even will let people see through, It causes oneself more no face to others

  Not have of progress heart, Deny the life

  lifetime up and down is normal, but no one can guarantee it's  steady once in this world as a person, failure is not awful, the bigger terrible is due to failure made a person become not have progress hearts, or fall into a negative status

  In most cases, destroyed a person isn't let him fail, raise lazy character, all day nothing things wast of young

  while a person became no progress heart, in fact, falls into a negative life attitude, at this time he gave up struggle idea, then always fall don't want to stand up again

 however, a lifetime on the way  ultimately needs on foot by yourself, your mentality determines your position if you are always at negative status, do not have progress heats status, naturally always can't go out of the failure place, It would into more deep failure

destiny can be changed, keep up a positive attitude, many times It's can be changed to get rid of the failure

  In reality life, no one always insteady a going on, also no one must be a failure, only shed the jealous heart, vanity heart, and negative heart  a person, originally can obtain an extremely beautiful lifetime,but it's becomes failed of  sample

  failure only was temporary time, as long as know how to work hard, you can change your destiny.