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About unmarried pregnant in advance

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 Seen a post“because unmarried in advance pregnant,the baby had birth already,boyfriend family does not  give the color gifts as  married,mother-in-law said:claim for my-family married makeup fees, I don‘t know how should I do?”    My reply might be to help that silly girl, I also wish that girl can saw my comments。in first,you need clear know,this man whether worth marry you,the marriage this big thing, it requires both couples mutual understand,mutual together grow up,rather than one sides person always for opposite sides so to hurt oneself。 if so down always,whenever change who don‘t envy。 the second,his parents despise you and your family, simple to say:due to you are unmarried pregnant in advance,but unmarried pregnant in advance can’t say it‘s one person mistake,after all the children have down it needs two-person ,sure?on the this stuffs ,their children own the bigger error sides,the result does not should bear by you personally。    the third,if I like you that, I will very firm

Today one of the notice messages make me shocked

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   It‘s my intimate,while her married immediately pregnat,now the children for one year about,in primary that intimate think while the children rather big a little go to work,in finally at look job on the way always touch too much rough,also have always had the third one baby urge by mother-in-law,said the children between age mutual the smaller the better,now they can to help assistant to take care of children,, however, my intimate complain and collapse。      the first,familiy economic condition does not allow have two children:the second,she mother-in-law just talk so well,then absolutely will let herself take care of the children,she mother-in-law at all not will and less to manage:the third,she discovered while she has the baby,easy to sense her body health decrease too many,the memory also became weak ,when looking for a job,also always will meet not fair due to married and own baby。     however, at today,the policy already open which allow resident has three baby,this to female

too much doted the child which opposite will hurt children

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    per family parents, the full wish the children can be dragon and phoenix,but too surprise let many the parents make own the children foster to be the most disappointing of the children,actually this is not the children of problem,however it‘s right the completely ignore who want to foster an excellent the children ,the first from young period foster his excellent quality and good the habit。 so this, while he grows up, became an adult after will to be dragon and phoenix。 the children as the white paper the same,the parents want a set of glory the maps that first neet to payout the time and mental on the white paper description to what you want the shape。    At present have lots of the parents too much doted their the children,as the children do many of not polite act,the parents the most of doing a set of nothing the shape,even to say and to think that a child does not to extra take care of,but the children also have as grow up,while at the young period as the parents not manage the

the parents feed children to 18 years old complete the task,then the children whether live or dead not about of parents stuff

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 “A” name it‘s a father 58 old year, I think just foster the children to 18 years old it’s completely,now many of parents let the children spoiled,help the children buy a house and buy a car also for children concern of marriage stuff,this is extra surplus,just the children over 18 old years it‘s belongs the adult,then the children whether life happy or sad ,both it don‘t belong “A” the stuff,don’t have the ability buy a house or married that is him didn‘t have the ability。 although“A” no have plenty of money,of course suppose “A” it‘s a father 58 old year, I think just foster the children to 18 years old it’s completely,now many of parents let the children spoiled,help the children buy a house and buy a car also for children concern of marriage stuff,this is extra surplus,just the children over 18 old years it‘s adult,then he lives whenever it’s don‘t belong “A” take care,don’t have the ability buy a house or buy a car that his stuff。 although“A” doesn‘t have plenty of money, suppose“

like this person not match as a mother

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   today heard mother-in-law talk a very sink and weigh the things,once listened make people express appreciation for this child,and also for this family expression pity!certainly mother-in-law must be chat in yesterday with aunt,talked this stuff。 A children's stepmother,seen the next-door neighbor that girl‘s stepmother with children mutual get along well,who stepmother fostered the girls so have feature outstanding。    while the girl works ,treat this stepmother special good,almost with self mother, not defferent,this boy's stepmother feel must let ex-husband child foster to be value ,of course when her marriage to husband ,couples also have a baby。    but this boy 12-year-old ,it‘s just at youth grow up period,probably study isn’t so good,this mother has a little grounches,extra effect next-door neighborhood that girl,special expect these children can value the person  but this child since young with his  grandmother along grow up,with his stepmother don‘t have what emotion

Have a bay only for oneself,isn‘t for other people to have

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   Tonight watch certain avideo,sunddenly see a doctor and a patient each to talk,listend let person‘s eye gaze。    when the doctor asks this woman how many children did she have,the woman said had five children and ready for the sixth child。 the doctor so surprise feels,did your family whether have great economic condition,unexpectly want to have the sixth children。    all pals had known ,in present not compare the past,have a baby not only need economic brace power,either its inquiry your experience requires very strong,feed a child,from small to growth need cost great funds,at present for a child of request it‘s really too much cost,not only request you the class score so well can pass enter to university,the more important it needs several and major technology。 in school join in assistant class and other special technology the class,which step doesn‘t need the money。    while the children have been growing up its not easy,the next to you have to get ready the color gifts ,married p

mother‘s request to her daughter of boyfriend

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At 18-19 of age, ,should have many people had the boy/girlfriend,, however, opposite of 19 old years of me,look a boyfriend the age young than me one-year ,don‘t know how many people have early love,opposite of me it‘s belongs that one,It’s just in primary second grade。   since that incident happened after,per times while mother talk this boyfriends topic,she always said the age too young don‘t hurry to love,should focus on study,when I grow up some,to 16-17 old years,she will with me to say,absolutely cannot look from rural person,of course myself identify origin from rural,sometime it‘s don’t understand why so look down the person while a certain person comes from rural,mybe it‘s themself already experience that one poverty life,want to let me the better life than her or else    I so less with mother talk boyfriend this topic,because while I talk up this who will say so many this topic too,sometime I don‘t like to listen   Since I over 18 old years then,she will introduce kinds of th